When the word no is all that, an individual hears, it can be easy for the individual to come to expect that the word no is all they will ever hear. When it appears that the word no is all that an individual will hear, it could leave an individual with feelings of not being accepted. The word no is not always a bad thing to hear, it just depends on the situation. The word no could come from a single person or from multiple people. In some situations, the word no, could be spoken as a way of protection. The protection could be to keep the individual from a harmful event, that they are not aware of. The protection could also be to keep the individual from an experience that they are not ready for. The word no could be a no for not right now.
Individuals that hear the word, no, from one person or from many people who are telling them no, the no will have an impact on them which is probably negative. Regardless of how many times an individual hears the word no, it doesn’t mean that the one saying the word no is right. It could be that the individual hearing the word no, could be around the people that are not for them. The one speaking the word no may not understand what the individual want and need. Changing an individual’s sphere of influence to a group that is more understanding, could possibly change the no to the word yes. They have been told no so many times, that no is all they are expecting to hear. However, yes could be on the way. People have been wrong before and could be that they are wrong with the word no that they are telling others. The bible also speaks of the word no, it reads in Matthew 5:37 “But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil.” The communication should be clear, and should be spoken either yea or nay, which means yes or no anything other than that is evil. Regardless of how many times an individual has been told no, they should remember that yes could be within arm’s reach. I Will, Will You?
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