Have you ever wanted to be a part of a group, team, friends or in a relationship with someone only to be rejected by them? Being rejected will most definitely be a painful and disappointing experience-feeling but it’s not the end of the world. You must accept it for what it is, and not allow the feeling of rejection to cause you to be angry and filled with resentment. Placing too much focus on the rejection of others may cause you to miss out on a friendship or relationship opportunity with someone that is meant to be in your life.
Accept the realization that not everyone is capable of being your friend or being in your life long-term. It doesn’t mean that you are not a good friend or that they are a bad person. It just means that this is not the season for you and them. Will there ever be a season for you and them. There is no way to tell if it will happen or if it will not happen, it just means that it will not happen right now.
There is one person that offers a friendship to you that is always in the right season. God has offered all of us a gift of accepting and getting to know him. Not everyone will take him up on his invitation, those who do will gain a benefit according to the scripture written in King James Version of 1 Peter 1:8-9 8 Whom having not seen, ye love; in whom, though now ye see him not, yet believing, ye rejoice with joy unspeakable and full of glory: 9 Receiving the end of your faith, even the salvation of your souls. This friendship is always in season, has no limitations and never wavers, you just have to accept it.
When dealing with others, accept their limitations and move on to the opportunities that may exist with someone that is meant to be a friend or partner. Use your time to find or allow the people that you are supposed to be friends with come into your life. Always be the kind of friend or partner to others that you want in your life. I Will, Will You?
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